Sunny days, sandy toes: America’s most charming coastal towns are perfect for a family vacation

These seaside escapes are just what any family needs.
Cape May Coastal Town
(Photo: Dan Mall via Unsplash)

There’s nothing like the family-friendly energy of a welcoming coastal town to help you enjoy the last few weeks of summer. Think sandy toes, bike rides along the water, and ice cream that melts faster than you can eat it. But don’t stop at the beach. In America’s best coastal towns, you’ll also find walkable downtowns packed with local shops, seafood shacks, and galleries, plus hands-on museums, aquariums, and cultural centers that keep kids entertained while sneaking in a little learning. Whether you’re after a laidback vibe or a bustling beach town, these seaside escapes are just what any family needs.

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1. Cape May, New Jersey

Houses along Beach Avenue in Cape May, New Jersey (Photo: Shutterstock)
Cape May’s colorful Victorian houses exude old-fashioned charm (Photo: Shutterstock)

The very first inhabitants of this thriving beach community are believed to be the Lenni-Lenape tribe, as recorded by the explorer Henry Hudson in the early 1600s. Named for Cornelius Jacobsen Mey, who founded the town in 1621, Cape May is also revered as the nation’s oldest seashore resort. The streets are lined with colorful Victorian houses that exude a kind of old-fashioned grandeur and charm.

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Cape May has plenty of leisure activities for families. Its boardwalk stretches for two miles, with beautiful views of sandy beaches and plenty of shops and restaurants along the way. Pristine Poverty Beach is a favorite for families on vacation with toddlers because it’s a quiet spot set farther back from the crowds (it also has street parking and bathrooms). Kids will also enjoy an afternoon at the Cape May County Zoo, which is free to visit and relies on donations. Some of the animals you might expect to see are American black bears, cheetahs, and giraffes.

Set up camp at Beach Plum Farm Cottages, where the coastal accommodations come with washers and dryers, full kitchens, and programs geared toward the little ones. From educational wilderness programs to hayrides, campfires, archery, and tie-dye art, there’s something to keep everyone busy at this rustic resort. Everyone will enjoy taking a break at the Orchard Pool or riding around on a golf cart. The resort’s restaurant, Farm Kitchen, uses produce grown right on the farm.

2. Seabrook, Washington

Seabrook Beach along the Washington Coast (Photo: Shutterstock)
Seabrook is a picturesque coastal town surrounded by woods and hiking trails (Photo: Shutterstock)

Situated along the Washington coast about two and a half hours from Seattle, the idyllic beach town of Seabrook is perfect for families looking to be close to the water. Founded in 2004 by Casey and Laura Roloff, this thoughtfully designed community is a picturesque coastal town surrounded by forest and hiking trails. With hundreds of vacation rental homes to choose from, Seabrook can easily become your home away from home.

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Families can enjoy the indoor and outdoor pools, play a game or two of tennis and pickleball, or rent a bike and meander around town. Everything within Seabrook is walkable. The town boasts over 30 parks and more than two dozen merchants and restaurants, plus a Saturday farmers’ market where you can pick up some goodies to enjoy at your cozy rental. You can also attend a beachside author series, where beloved children’s book authors visit for a reading.

3. Shelter Island, New York

Waterfront lawn and fire pit at The Pridwin in Shelter Island, New York (Photo: The Pridwin)
The waterfront Pridwin Hotel and Cottages has been welcoming guests to Shelter Island since 1929 (Photo: The Pridwin)

A small island of about 27 square miles, New York’s Shelter Island is only accessible by car ferries that depart from the cities of Greenport and North Haven. Only 90 miles east of New York City, it’s home to six unique beaches where families can play, swim, and stroll in the salty Atlantic breeze. Classic coastal town pastimes include mini golf at Shelter Island Whale’s Tale Dessert Cafe and Miniature Golf Course (an 18-hole course), exploring the 2,100-acre Mashomack Preserve, and learning about the island’s history at the Sylvester Manor Farm.

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Stay at The Pridwin Hotel and Cottages, a waterfront property that originally opened in 1929. Here kids can participate in scavenger hunts, water sports, and games of kickball and tennis. A game room with board games, toys, and activities will keep spirits high on a rainy day, and parents can look forward to treatments at the hotel’s elegant spa.

4. Laguna Beach, California

Laguna Beach view
Stunning beaches are the norm in Laguna Beach, California (Photo: Trac Vu via Unsplash)

California is home to many of the best coastal towns in the U.S., but Laguna Beach is an absolute must-visit destination for families. Known for its thriving art scene, the town also boasts long stunning stretches of beach, virtually perfect year-round weather, and a unique topography of sea caves, ocean bluffs, and natural tide pools rich with marine life. It’s a perfect California vacation destination for snorkeling, scuba diving, kayaking, and swimming (at some of the beaches).

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This beach town offers plenty of activities besides lounging by the beach, too. Visit the Pacific Marine Mammal Center to learn about the rescue and rehabilitation of sea lions and other marine mammals, or spend an afternoon at the kid-friendly Laguna Art Museum, where there are plenty of programs geared specifically toward families and kids of all ages.

Conveniently located a block from the beach, Art Hotel Laguna Beach offers affordable family-friendly rooms with complimentary breakfast. There’s also a seasonal pool and laundry facilities for those non-beach days.

5. Port Aransas, Texas

The beach at Port Aransas (Photo: Port Aransas Tourism Bureau)
Port Aransas is a delightfully low-key beach town just 30 minutes from Corpus Christi (Photo: Port Aransas Tourism Bureau)

Just 30 minutes from Corpus Christi, Port Aransas on Mustang Island is a low-key seaside town that’s a great choice for families who want less hustle and bustle than a typical beach town. To get to the island, you’ll need to board a ferry (they run frequently throughout the year). But don’t worry if your kids aren’t great on boats, because the ferry ride is a quick 10 minutes. Once you arrive, there’s no shortage of beaches for swimming, paddling, and kayaking on this tiny island. You can even drive your car right along the ocean.

Stay at Port Royal Ocean Resort, which hosts family-friendly activities like sandcastle-building lessons and “dive-in” movies. There are water slides and a large pool as well as volleyball courts that can keep everyone active for hours. Stop by the frozen station for an ice cream treat or the food truck for some quick and casual fare. The accommodations are one- to three-bedroom condo suites with a fully equipped kitchen and washer and dryer.

6. Key West, Florida

Florida Keys beach path
Colorful Key West is one of America’s most popular coastal towns (Photo: Florida Guidebook.com via Unsplash)

The southernmost point in Florida, Key West owes its popularity as a coastal town for families to its sparkling blue waters, white sand beaches, and loads of kid-friendly things to do. Take the kids to the Key West Aquarium for an immersive introduction to local marine life, then visit the Mel Fisher Maritime Museum to see remnants of shipwrecks and other 17th century artifacts like coins and cannons. And for kiddos (or parents) who need a break from walking, the conch train tour is a 75-minute ride that takes you on a tour around Old Key West.

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Book your stay at the sensational Pier House Resort and Spa, which is located right in the heart of downtown and comes with access to a private beach and an outdoor pool. The resort offers one- and two-bedroom suites, some with kitchens and a nicely appointed dining area, and the concierge can arrange for activities such as snorkeling, kayaking, and fishing. Alternatively, FamilyVacationist’s Beth Luberecki recommends Key West’s Southernmost Beach Resort, which is great for both families and couples.

7. Block Island, Rhode Island

Mansion Beach on Block Island (Photo: Rhode Island Commerce Corporation)
New England’s Block Island is known for its rolling hills and bucolic vistas (Photo: Rhode Island Commerce Corporation)

No coastal town in the U.S. evokes a feeling of quintessential New England charm better than Block Island, located about 10 miles off the coast of Rhode Island. Accessible by a one-hour long ferry ride, this beach town is seven miles of rolling hills and bucolic vistas. The iconic red lighthouse at the top of Mohegan Bluffs offers spectacular views of the ocean, and the downtown area where ferries dock is a hub of activities with plenty of restaurants and boutiques to keep you occupied.

And while Block Island may be tiny, there are 15 beaches and five parks here, with many hiking trails to discover. Meander through Rodman’s Hollow, a 230-acre glacial outwash plain affording expansive views of the ocean, or visit the Block Island National Wildlife Refuge, which spans approximately 127 acres, to spot a variety of birds.

Stay at The 1661 Inn, which has 24 rooms spread across four buildings and a petting zoo featuring camels, llamas, and yaks. Convenient on-site dining options include the 1661 restaurant, which serves breakfast; and The Farmstead, offering sandwiches, smoothies, and various snacks.

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Jean Chen Smith
Jean Chen Smith is a freelance journalist who is passionate about storytelling and curating authentic travel experiences. Based in Oregon with a love of the great outdoors, she has contributed to The Oregonian, Travel + Leisure, FamilyVacationist, SFGATE, Insider Travel, 1859, AARP, and more. When not writing and traveling, she is following her other passions which include Pilates, trail running, and spending time with her shih tzus Tonka and Paisley.