High-school graduation is a major milestone. To celebrate our daughter’s, my husband and I planned a trip to Europe with family friends whose son has been close friends with our daughter since kindergarten.
But when the parents began the planning process, taking a DIY approach to a multi-country trip for four adults and three teenagers (two high-school grads and an 8th-grade graduate) proved daunting. We considered a guided tour but weren’t sure that was the right fit for our group. And then we found an ideal solution: a Mediterranean cruise.
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We opted for a seven-night cruise on Royal Caribbean’s Voyager of the Seas, which departed from the port of Civitavecchia near Rome and made stops in Salerno and Sicily, Italy; Kusadasi, Türkiye; and Santorini and Mykonos, Greece, before finishing up at the port of Piraeus near Athens. This allowed us to see several areas in Italy and Greece (plus Türkiye, which hadn’t originally been on our list) without a lot of logistical coordination on our end.
And that’s not the only reason why we all enjoyed traveling this way. Here’s why a cruise wound up being a great option for traveling to Europe with teenagers.
It simplified trip planning.
Once we chose our cruise itinerary, we began considering shore excursions. We wanted to do something organized at each port, and we always had good options to choose from on the cruise ship’s list without needing to wade through an overwhelming array of choices.
All seven of us weighed in on the plan for each day to some degree (maybe the adults a little more so than the teens), helping to narrow down the options. Two of the teens had developed an interest in mythology after reading the Percy Jackson series, which helped drive our decision to visit the island of Delos (the mythological birthplace of Apollo and Artemis) during our time in Mykonos. In other ports, we opted for overview types of tours. We chose to do all the excursions together, but it would have been easy to split up some days if the whole group wasn’t interested in the same activities.
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Choosing shore excursions through the ship meant we didn’t have to figure out transportation once we’d disembarked or navigate unfamiliar areas completely on our own. And we always tried to balance the excursions’ subject matter and tour length with the teenagers’ interests and attention spans, leaving time most days for some independent strolling around the port, enjoying the ship’s amenities, or just relaxing for a while before dinner. Our longest day was an excursion to Sorrento and Pompeii, but the latter was a must-visit for all of us.
It allowed everyone to unpack once.
Teenagers aren’t known for being neat. And I know if my daughter had to unpack and repack every night or two while traveling around Europe, it wouldn’t be pretty, even with her embrace of packing cubes.
But with a cruise, we could all unpack upon boarding and repack the night before departure. And for the rest of the trip, we could just choose an outfit for the day or evening and go on our way. That kind of stress-free travel was definitely appreciated by all of us.
It gave the teenagers plenty of freedom.
Would I feel good about the three teenagers exploring an unfamiliar European city on their own? Probably not. But was I fine with them roaming the ship without the adults? Most definitely.
The three of them shared a room and had plenty of freedom when we were on the ship. So if they wanted to go to the gym, try the waterslides, get some soft serve, or take a nap, they could. Beyond the excursions, our nightly dinner was the only regularly required activity for them, and those wound up being a highlight of the trip. We talked about funny family memories, the parents’ college days, and memorable moments from our excursions (like our tour guide at Pompeii who had a lot to say about a certain male body part).
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And at other points while on the ship, the teens often wound up drifting back to the parents after spending some time without us. Music trivia was a big hit with our crew, and at least two of the teens would join in every time we played.
It made meals easier.
Part of traveling is trying local cuisine, and we were able to do that during our excursions. We sampled fresh mozzarella and olive oil in a lemon grove in Sorrento and had a Greek lunch in Fira on Santorini, where the spicy feta dip called tirokafteri quickly became a group favorite. During lunch in the Old Port area of Mykonos, fried feta with honey was the bite of the day.
But traveling by cruise meant that breakfast was easy to come by each day (especially when the excursions had an early meeting time), and the buffet on the ship plus a pizza spot helped with any midday snacking needs. A new dinner menu each evening allowed the teens to try new things—and order a backup option if they truly hated something.
The day at sea provided a good break.
Teenagers can only take so many historical facts or visits to ancient ruins and notable churches. The cruise’s day at sea fell in the middle of our trip, and it was perfect timing.
Everyone could sleep in after several early mornings and then spend the day how they wanted. For us, it was reading by the pool for the adults and taking on the FlowRider for the teens. The relaxed pace and lack of obligations was a beneficial reset at the halfway point of the trip.
It offered a good introduction to multiple areas of Europe.
Yes, you’re not getting an intensive cultural immersion in any region if you opt for a cruise. It’s definitely a quick-hit type of experience. But there are benefits to that.
“It gave the teens a taste of each location so they could know in the future what they want to explore in more depth,” my friend Heather told me after the trip. “It’s also a great way to do it for the first time when you don’t know the language of a country. It gives you a way to explore without feeling cut off linguistically. While it limits your ability to deeply take in various regions of a country, it is a great way to take the first steps.”
During our cruise, we wandered through two picturesque medieval villages on Sicily, admired Santorini’s iconic blue-roofed buildings, ate pizza and shopped in Sorrento, and saw the ruins of the Temple of Artemis and the ancient city of Ephesus in Türkiye, where we learned we were actually in the Asian portion of the country (a bonus continent!). And we discovered that the ferries in Mykonos are definitely not for the faint of heart (or those prone to seasickness).
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“It let you see a lot of places in a shorter amount of time than you would if you were just traveling on your own,” my daughter remarked. “Especially for people who haven’t been to those places before, it’s a great first way to see them and see a variety of things. I don’t think we would have been able to visit as many places as we did if we had done it all on our own.”
“I really liked how it helped us see lots of places without spending too long there,” the other high-school grad told me. “And we were still able to have fun between locations because we were on the ship.”
It was easy to add on to the cruise experience.
We all stayed two nights in Rome before the cruise and two nights in Athens after the cruise. That allowed us to see those destinations our way (albeit briefly). In Rome, my family toured the Vatican Museums and Sistine Chapel, did a golf cart tour of city highlights, and enjoyed an excellent food tour of the Trastevere neighborhood with Eating Europe. Heather’s family visited the Colosseum and did a private tour of the city (a gift from her mom).
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In Athens, we all did a private driving tour of the city upon arriving (a good choice in the summer heat), a fun street food tour one night (the donut-like lukumádes were a hit), and a mythology walking tour one morning. In both cities we also had time to roam around on our own for a good taste of non-cruise travel. And as a result of the whole trip, my daughter now has a long list of places she wants to revisit along with all the other spots still on her travel bucket list.
