At these family-friendly resorts with private beaches, relaxation is practically guaranteed

Staying at a resort with a private beach means smaller crowds, more exclusive access to the water, and a memorable family vacation.
Aerial view of the beach at Chatham Bars Inn
Photo: Chatham Bars Inn

Any kind of beach vacation is a good vacation, but staying at a resort with its own private beach takes the experience to a new level. For one thing, private beaches tend to be quieter and free of vendors. The sand is usually pristine, finding a spot is often easier, and relaxation is virtually guaranteed. But the biggest benefit may well be the convenience of resort amenities and room-to-beach access, both of which are especially huge perks when traveling with kids. Here are my picks for the top family-friendly resorts with private beaches.

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1. Scrub Island Resort, Spa & Marina

Tortola, British Virgin Islands

An aerial view of the beach and main resort area of Scrub Island Resort
It’s all about having fun on the water at the resort’s Donovan’s Beach (Photo: Scrub Island Resort, Spa & Marina)

Scrub Island Resort, Spa & Marina has not one but two private beaches. Located below the resort’s lagoon-style multi-tiered Pavilion Pool, Donovan’s Beach is the place to go for activities like kayaking, stand-up paddleboarding, snorkeling, and playing on the resort’s kid-friendly water trampoline. And then there’s North Beach, a secluded, scenic 1,000-foot stretch along the Caribbean complete with private cabanas. Accommodations here range from standard guest rooms and suites to six-bedroom villas, and all guests have access to the intimate Ixora Spa, restaurants, an on-site marina with day-trip excursions, and the new Marina Cay Bar & Grill on an offshore private island.

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2. Chatham Bars Inn

Chatham, Massachusetts

Two white Adirondack chairs on the grass overlooking the beach at Chatham Bars Inn
Beach days are pretty dreamy at Chatham Bars Inn (Photo: Chatham Bars Inn)

Oozing quintessential Cape Cod charm, Chatham Bars Inn sits on a quarter-mile private beach. Open year-round, it’s of course a popular spot during the summer months, when families can take to the calm waters of Aunt Lydia’s Cove, which is protected from the Atlantic Ocean by the Cape Cod National Seashore’s North Beach Island. There’s also an oceanfront zero-entry heated pool that’s open from mid-April to mid-October along with seasonal kids’ programming that offers hands-on activities, craft sessions, and dive-in movies at the pool. Grownups will appreciate the resort’s restaurants, spa, and proximity to shopping and dining on Chatham’s historic Main Street.

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3. The St. Regis Longboat Key Resort

Longboat Key, Florida

An aerial view of St. Regis Longboat Key Resort on the Gulf of Mexico
There’s 800 feet of private beach to enjoy at Florida’s second St. Regis location (Photo: The St. Regis Longboat Key Resort)

This recently opened luxury resort sits on 18 scenic acres that include an 800-foot private stretch of white-sand beach on the Gulf of Mexico. Families will likely spend a lot of time by and in the water here, but no matter where you are at the resort, the beach is never really out of view. You can spy it from the family-friendly Resort Pool and Winding River, the Under the Sea Lagoon where guests can snorkel with stingrays and local reef fish, the oceanfront spa, and many of the on-site dining options. Opt for a Gulf-view room or suite to start or end the day by watching the waves.

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4. Waldorf Astoria Monarch Beach Resort & Club

Dana Point, California

View of beach club at Waldorf Astoria Monarch Beach Resort & Club
Time under the sun is a special experience at the private Monarch Bay Beach Club (Photo: James Baigrie/Waldorf Astoria)

Book a stay at Waldorf Astoria Monarch Beach Resort & Club, set on 175 acres atop a 150-foot seaside bluff in Orange County, and you have access to the private Monarch Bay Beach Club. That’s where the whole family can take a dip in the Pacific Ocean, rent paddleboards and kayaks, take surfing lessons, and enjoy seasonal beach bonfires complete with gourmet s’mores kits. Beyond the beach, the resort also offers complimentary access to beach cruisers, a family pool, a fitness center and dozens of complimentary classes, and a luxe spa with relaxation lounges with ocean views.

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5. Eau Resort & Spa

Palm Beach, Florida

An aerial view of Eau Resort & Spa and its beachfront in Palm Beach
Kayaks, stand-up paddleboards, and snorkeling gear are available at the resort’s private beach (Photo: Eau Resort & Spa)

There’s a lot for families to like at Eau Resort & Spa. That includes two oceanfront swimming pools and Kids and Teens Clubs that have crafts sessions, video games, and movie nights. At the resort’s private beach, staff can get families set up with kayaks, stand-up paddleboards, and snorkeling gear for exploring the Atlantic Ocean. Guest rooms and suites designed by Jonathan Adler are done up in colorful Palm Beach style, and even the family pup gets five-star treatment here with in-room dog beds, food and water bowls, and homemade treats.

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6. Hyatt Regency Grand Reserve Puerto Rico

Rio Grande, Puerto Rico

An aerial view of the pool and beach at Hyatt Regency Grand Reserve Puerto Rico
Paddle or snorkel the waters around the resort’s private beach (Photo: Hyatt Regency Grand Reserve Puerto Rico)

You won’t be sharing the sand with anyone but your fellow resort guests at Hyatt Regency Grand Reserve Puerto Rico, which sits on a 72-acre private peninsula in the foothills of El Yunque National Forest. Grab a kayak, paddleboard, or snorkel to explore the coral reef-protected Atlantic coastline from the resort’s private beach, or just read or relax by the water. (The resort’s motto is, after all, “doing nothing means everything.”) An ideal spot for a multigenerational family vacation, the property also features Puerto Rico’s largest lagoon-style pool, a wide variety of food and beverage options, two 18-hole Tom Kite–designed golf courses, a soothing spa, and complimentary bicycles for pedaling around.

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7. The Sanctuary at Kiawah Island Golf Resort

Kiawah Island, South Carolina

An aerial view of the beach at The Sanctuary on Kiawah Island
The Sanctuary sits on a beautiful stretch of the Atlantic Ocean (Photo: The Sanctuary)

Part of Kiawah Island Golf Resort, The Sanctuary makes the most of its location fronting the Atlantic Ocean. Ninety percent of the hotel’s guest rooms and suites have ocean views, and similar vistas can be enjoyed from the family pool and the outdoor Loggerhead Grill. From the pool complex, a boardwalk meanders down to the hotel’s private beach, where attendants help set guests up with chairs, umbrellas, towels, and beach toys. During beach season, these sands host activities including sunrise yoga, surfing lessons, ocean seining, and evening beach walks.

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8. Ocean House

Watch Hill, Rhode Island

Ocean House
Ocean House offers a beach vacation with yesteryear vibes (Photo: Visit Rhode Island)

Take a family beach vacation in elegant throwback style at Rhode Island’s Ocean House. The rebuilt inn evokes its 19th-century history but has the modern touches today’s travelers need. The resort sits along a 650-foot private beach, where cabanas can be reserved in the summer months and activities include fishing, surfing, and stand-up paddleboarding. There’s children’s programming during the summer, a full schedule of complimentary wine and cooking classes throughout the year, a seasonal croquet lawn, a screening room showing family-friendly movies, and complimentary bike rentals for tooling around Watch Hill (which just so happens to be where Taylor Swift’s Rhode Island mansion is located).

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Beth Luberecki
Beth Luberecki has traveled the world, interviewed celebrities, and writes articles on topics including travel and lifestyle. Her work has appeared in publications including USA Today, Forbes Vetted, Fashion Washington, TourScoop.com, and KiplingerForecasts.com. When she’s not writing, she’s traveling with her teenager and her husband. Check out her work at bethluberecki.com or follow her on Instagram at @bethlubereckiwrites and @findingfloridafun.